Adam McHugh: The Listening Life

Adam S. McHugh, The Listening Life: Embracing Attentiveness in a World of Distraction (Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 2015), 224 pages, ISBN 9780830844128

The Listening Life is Adam McHugh’s second book; his first was Introverts in the Church. Both of these books have a common theme; they both focus on the subject of quietness. As others before me have pointed out, God gave us two ears and one mouth, so we should listen more than we speak. In this, his latest book, McHugh champions the cause of listening. He has served as a pastor, hospice chaplain, and spiritual director, in these various capacities he has spent a good deal of time listening and he believes that there is much value in it.

The book is comprised of an introduction, nine chapters, and an epilogue. Many Christian books have been written about listening to God, which is, of course, very important. McHugh too believes that listening to God is important but he advocates for other kinds of listening as well. In the course of the text he writes about: Listening to God, Listening to Scripture, Listening to Creation, Listening to Others, Listening to People in Pain, and Listening to Your Life. Listening is important. McHugh points out near the beginning of the book that God Himself is a listener. If God, the sovereign of the universe, listens we as His people ought to listen as well. One of the fundamental benefits of listening is that we learn.

The author makes some interesting points in this book. For example, in the Introduction, he points out that listening comes first in life (page 9). Even before babies are born they can hear the voices of their parents while they are in the womb; after they are born they listen before they can speak (page 9). As listening takes first place in our natural life it should also be of primary importance in our spiritual life. McHugh points out that in order to be a Christian disciple one needs to listen (page 10). He says “Listening and obedience are inextricably, unabashedly linked, so much so that we can say that those who don’t act on what they hear have not actually listened” (page 16). He later adds that who we become depends in large measure on who we listen to (page 24).

Of particular interest to Charismatics is McHugh’s stance on listening to God. He is a Presbyterian minister but he is not of the opinion that God can only be heard in the Bible (page 59); in short, he is not a cessationist. He believes that God can speak to people today and that many of those who oppose the idea are motivated by fear (page 60). All of the means that God employed in Scripture to communicate with people (dreams, visions, etc.) are still valid ways for Him to communicate today (pages 61-62). McHugh further says that God’s language is that of faith, hope, and love, if we are committed to living in these God will speak to us (page 79). With regard to listening to God in Scripture the author tells us that scriptural revelation is more about revealing who than what, the Bible is to be a place of encounter with God (page 93).

Listening to other people is also important, this is particularly true for those involved in ministry, because all true ministries involve listening (page 135). Being a good listener is not an easy quality to develop. McHugh has a section called “How to Be a Bad Listener” in it he identifies a number of things we sometimes do that hinder good listening (pages 139-142). After this he provides counsel about how to be a better listener in order to help people. This includes not asking closed-end questions (those that can be answered “yes” or “no”). In the course of chapters six and seven “Listening to Others,” and “Listening to People in Pain” McHugh offers examples of ministry conversations with others.

Chapter eight is devoted to listening to our own lives. As the author points out there are many inner voices that beckon for our attention. He has identified a number of them by attaching names to them such as: the parent, the therapist, the defendant, the critic (182-183). In this chapter he also counsels us to listen to our emotions, our bodies, our scripts (certain ideas that we believe such as “Money will supply me with the security I need,” page 196), our questions, and our score (as if our lives were musical scores—are they too loud, too staccato, pages 201-202).

There is much to ponder and process in this book. Implementing the information it contains cannot be done on the fast track, it will require a lifetime of practice. However, rich possibilities await those who attempt to make these listenings a regular part of their life. Attentiveness, discipline, and patience are necessary in order to bear fruit in listening. These qualities will enhance our knowledge and experience of God and will better equip us to help others.

Reviewed by John Lathrop

 

Publisher’s page: https://www.ivpress.com/the-listening-life