How Youth Ministry Could Fail The Church, by Jeff Grenell

Jeff Grenell — Sun, 10 Jan 2016 22:18:12 +0000

Here are five ways that Youth Ministry could fail the Church.

Unhealthy Youth Leaders

There is a difference between ‘busyness’ and ‘business’. When Youth Leaders are busy, they burn out. Because they spend more time in programming and gaming than they do in relationships and study. When Youth Leaders are about the business of the Church, they burn on. Because they spend more time in relationships and study than they do in programming and gaming.

An unhealthy Youth Leader will produce unhealthy students, and ultimately, an unhealthy generation who will lead the Church into an unhealthy future.

Before a Youth Leader teaches or preaches to their leaders and students, they must internalize the Word they have been preparing. Our personal spiritual health is elementary to us leading others in their corporate spiritual growth. One of the missing pieces in leadership development is self-leadership. Create your own personal disciplines before you challenge others to create theirs. Our own ceilings and lids can become detected by those around us when we have expectations for others that we do not live ourselves. Daily reading, weekly fasting, monthly witnessing, annual mentors, and a lifetime of sexual purity must be the kind of commitments we make to our own personal leadership.

An unhealthy Youth Leader will produce unhealthy students, and ultimately, an unhealthy generation who will lead the Church into an unhealthy future.

Mono-Strategy For Reaching A Diverse Student

It takes all kinds of people to reach all kinds of people. And it takes all kinds of models to reach all kinds of men.

There are many models to Youth Ministry. The Youth Service, Discipleship, Outreach, Small Group, Fine Arts, Events, and even Campus based models are all popular. To simply emphasize one of these approaches is limiting. The diversity in the youth culture demands that we become proficient in multiple models. Look at the tribes present in our society.

Image: Stuart Vivier

Most Youth Ministries are able to function in 1 or 2 of these. Maybe a good youth service and a few outreach events. Or, capable small groups and weekly visits to the campus. Each Youth Leader will have a core competency in one or even two of these strategies, but, the Youth Leader who can become proficient in 2 or 3 or 4 of these models can have an opportunity to reach more students. And that requires that Youth Leaders have varied skilled and multiple gifted leaders around them.

It takes all kinds of people to reach all kinds of people. And it takes all kinds of models to reach all kinds of men.

An Unwillingness To Be Teachable

The young leader can often think that the vets are stuck in the scriptures and don’t understand culture.

The mentoring relationship between the young Youth Leader and the veteran Youth Leader is vital to a healthy Church. In my travels and conversations with so many leaders across the country I have seen an unfortunate relationship between the two emerge. The young leader can often think that the vets are stuck in the scriptures and don’t understand culture. That they are dinosaurs who preach a gospel that society isn’t interested in and they are living on past successes from 2 or 3 decades ago. On the other hand, the veteran leader can think that the rookie is into cultural trends and doesn’t understand scripture. That they are hipsters who preach gaming and videos with more gaga ball and charades than biblical content.

Condolences to the Grenell Family

Raul Mock — Sat, 19 Dec 2015 17:30:46 +0000

The PneumaReview.com editorial committee would like to express our deepest condolences to Jeff Grenell and his family on the passing of his wife, Jane.

Jaren Grenell, son of Jeff and Jane Grenell, wrote this tribute on December 18:

After a 16 month fight with cancer, early this morning our mom Jane has won. She has fulfilled her purpose here on earth. In her last days she never lost her spirit, she never lost her personality, she never lost her ministry. We know that God is the giver and taker of life. Each of us has a purpose, and when we have fulfilled that purpose, we win.
Our family was together with her in Hospice Care the past 3 weeks and we are walking through this with an everlasting hope in Jesus. Although this has been incredibly difficult, we have many reasons to celebrate knowing that mom received her ultimate healing in Heaven.

Our mom has left us with a great legacy. Her life here was spent fully committed to the Kingdom of God and her family and friends. She ran the race well. Because of her selfless love, passion for people, and discipline in following Jesus, many lives have been impacted.

Her grace and beauty in the face of sickness has taught us in endless ways. She was a fighter through every trial.

We want to say thank you. We are so grateful for the people around us. Thanks for traveling this journey the last 16 months with us. The prayers and encouragement have been felt. Remember, never do hardship alone.

We encourage each of you to take hold of every moment. Every second of your life has meaning. Love well. Live with a purposeful heart. And treat every moment as a chance to impact this world for Christ. That’s what our mom did. And that is what we will continue to do as a family.

Details about the Celebration Service and addresses for sending condolences are available by writing to Editor.

Jeff Grenell’s Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/thejeffgrenell

When you go through deep waters, I will be with you. When you go through rivers of difficulty, you will not drown. When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you. For I am the Lord, your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior (Isaiah 43:2-3)

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How Youth Ministry Could Fail The Church, by Jeff Grenell

Condolences to the Grenell Family